How to get there? Fly out the window, then "second to the right and straight on till morning," according to Peter Pan. But as James Barrie points out, not even birds, consulting maps at windy corners could have found it with these directions. Peter, as usual, just said whatever came into his head. Really, you don't need find the Neverland--it is already looking for you. The proper way, as every lost boy knows, is to fall into it through hearing a story told by a nice motherly sort of person like Wendy Darling. See for yourselves.